Category Archives: Shibari

Sara’s tie and tease – Part II – tie, tease, release

Some people have no interest in BDSM. They don’t need to explore giving away control. They don’t want the challenge of physical pain. They don’t like the feel of rope on their skin.

But then some people do.

All of it, or just some. There’s no right or wrong. Just consent and exploration. Sara wanted to be tied up and then have me tease her with toys. This is her experience…

It has come to my attention that the size of this film (800+ megabytes) is too large for some people to download. I have therefore created a smaller version (regular high definition rather than full HD and a lower bit rate). The file is only 200 megabytes, so should be much more manageable without too much loss of quality.

So, if you have trouble streaming/viewing the version above, please try this one instead:

MJohn

Sara’s tie and tease – part I – a tying time-lapse

Sara contacted me after seeing one of my films and asked if we could do a session where I tied her and teased her with toys.

Sara had never experienced being tied before, so we spent some time talking about what kind of tie she would like. I think that many people expect Shibari and bondage in general is always going to be a full body tie and complete immobilisation, but in reality it can be absolutely anything that you want it to be.

So I spent some time talking with Sara about what she would like to experience including what kind of tie appealed to her.

The criteria we decided on were:

  • Upper body tie that displayed her breasts beautifully
  • Restrained her arms
  • Allowed her to lay on her back comfortably for toy play

I did some research on styles of chest harness that might suit the session and allow for her to be safely laid down for the second part of the session – the tease.

In the end I didn’t find any harness design that immobilised Sara’s arms without either hiding her breasts, requiring her arms to be behind her back, or to be suspended. So when we started the practice tie I devised something on the spot, starting around her waist, then binding her wrists and finally moving up to do the chest portion.

It took a couple of practice ties to get right, but we were both happy with the outcome when it was done.

Some people enjoy the sensation of being tied just on its own. But others like to combine being tied with erotic play and sex. Sara wanted to try some play with toys once she was tied. I will be posting another video of that soon…

I hope you enjoy this film and thank you to Sara for filming with me!

MJohn.